When I was divorced, I had a few brief encounters that weren’t relationships, and I couldn’t understand why they didn’t evolve into that. It was until I realized that I needed to understand my own heart a little better. It doesn’t have to be difficult to be in a relationship, sometimes we think it does because when we’re miserable we tend to do better because we feel challenged. This doesn’t have to relate to relationships, we need to accept that perfection isn’t what people are looking, it’s a connection.
- Pretending you’re someone you aren’t will only serve to deter partners from being comfortable with you.
- Dramatic conflict happens when you feel one way but act another.
- To feel worthy of love, find a partner who is open to the same and be ready to meet them.
“Here’s what I’ve learned about letting go of feeling unworthy of love and finally learning how to receive it.”